The Real Deal on What Your Clothes Say About YOU

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It’s no secret that the clothes you wear affect your behavior, attitude, personality, mood, confidence, and even the way you interact with others.

This is called enclothed cognition.

But let's be clear…your clothes don't define you nor do they determine your value as a person.  You are lovely no matter what you wear – please know that!

And if you find yourself conflicted between wanting to look great and feeling guilty about focusing on clothes, that's ok.  Those are normal feelings.  Just know you can feel good in your clothes without breaking the bank or spending hours putting together an outfit.

The clothes you choose can, however, affect how you are perceived by your peers and coworkers.  Perception is too often reality, and your clothes act as a communication tool.

“Clothing plus communication skills determine whether or not others will comply with your request, trust you with information, give you access to decision makers, pay you a certain salary or fee for contracted business, hire you, or purchase your products and services.” Darlene Price

Did you hear that?  And according to the author of You Are What You Wear: What Your Clothes Reveal About You, Dr. Jennifer Baumgartner says shopping and spending behaviors often come from internal motivations such as emotions, experiences, and culture.  You look at shopping or storing behaviors, even putting together outfits, and people think of it as fluff.  But any behavior is rooted in something deeper.  I look at the deeper meaning of choices, just like I would in therapy.

What Your Clothes Say About You 

Want to know what your clothing really says about you? Learn more with Roxanne Carne | Personal Stylist!Your clothes represent a great deal and communicate socially important things to others.

If you're dressed in yoga pants and a t-shirt, others will naturally assume you're headed to or from a workout (or perhaps that you couldn’t be bothered to wear anything else!).  If you're wearing a blouse, structured skirt, and heels, others will presume you are a professional and work in a corporate setting.

Blogger, and social psychologist, Gauri Sarda-Joshi suggests there’s a reason tailored jackets are associated with being ‘dressed for success’.  She says that wearing formal office wear and structured clothes puts us in the right frame of mind to conduct business.  Wearing power clothing makes us feel more confident [possibly because we call it power clothing], and even increases hormones needed for displaying dominance.  This, in turn, helps us become better negotiators and abstract thinkers.

It makes sense to dress appropriately for the social situation. You are training your brain and influencing your attitude!  You won't get a good workout in formal clothes, and you won't convince your corporate boss of much in yoga pants, right?

Your Mental State Affects the Way You Dress (and Vice-Versa!)

Feeling cranky, sad, or upset?  If you're going through a breakup, are feeling depressed or anxious, you may notice a change in your wardrobe choices…sweatpants and hoodie? Yes, please!

Your mental state directly affects the way you dress. 

But if the way you think and feel affects the way you dress, is it possible the opposite is also true?

While baggy, boring clothes can signify that you’re a bit down and out, swapping them for cheerful, brightly colored clothes can offer an instant boost to your mood and energy.  Even if you're moping around the house, try a bright yellow hoodie instead of a dull grey one.

And remember that time your friend dragged you out of the house and said, “Get dressed up! You'll feel better!” And it worked?!

“When you dress in a certain way, it helps shift your internal self,” explains Dr. Baumgartner. “We see that when we do makeovers, and even actors say that putting on a costume facilitates expression of character. That's just as true for everyday life.” 

So, the next time you are tempted to match your clothing to your mood, try the opposite and see what happens! Throw on some happy colors and see if it lifts your spirits. And put on some power clothes when you need to lay down the law at work.

In response to a study on clothes and emotion Shauna Mackenzie Heathman, a certified image consultant said, “If something makes your figure look poor, we generally don’t like this and thus are unhappy about it. When we don’t like what we wear, we focus on it throughout the day. It takes away the focus from the daily tasks that are important—work, relationships, family. A woman should walk out of the door and not have to think about what she’s wearing for the rest of the day. You’d be amazed at how much mental energy is exhausted pondering about how we look.”

Yes, yes, yes!!  There's a real connection between clothing and mood. By deliberately wearing clothes that evoke positive feelings (or even better, clothes that make you look fantastic), you will feel happier. And feeling happier will promote positive interactions with others, and improve how you feel about yourself!

Don't Fall For The Lazy Trap

It's sooooo easy to fall into the habit of sartorial laziness. You may believe your sunny disposition will make up for the pills developing on your clothes — it's wishful thinking, but it's not true. What you wear speaks volumes.

Dressing to impress really is worthwhile and could even be the key to your success.  I firmly believe this and literally preach this to my clients all the time!

Quick Tips to Mix Things Up + Make A Statement

Changing up your clothes is an easy way of changing the impression others have of you — and how you feel about yourself.

Make note of the clothes currently in your closet — like the styles and patterns. Pay attention to your shopping habits…do you consistently buy the same “type” of clothes?

My style archetypes are a great place to start exploring your sartorial preferences…

Are you:

When you've identified your own style archetype(s), you can make a real change…you can start buying clothes that match the new and improved you!

And remember, the next time you reach for an item from your closet, ask yourself how it will make you feel and whether it’s socially appropriate.

Are you heading out for a casual picnic — yoga pants-appropriate.  Or will you be commanding the attention of creatives at the office — structured suit-appropriate.

And always wear clothes that fit you well and are flattering. You are a gorgeous and confident woman…DO NOT hide behind baggy clothes.

You're Not Alone & Help is Closer Than You Think

Not sure what clothes are the most flattering for your figure?  Or whether your current wardrobe matches your personality and lifestyle?  Or maybe you spend far too long putting together an outfit because your clothes are so mismatched…you aren't alone!Want to get your wardrobe style together? Work one-on-one with Roxanne Carne | Personal Stylist in-person or virtually today!

As a Personal Stylist, I want you to feel your best! I can help you save time and money by providing you with the tools to properly assess the best way to dress for your body type and take the guesswork out of pulling together extraordinary looks that work just for YOU.

Now imagine yourself saying this:

  • Organized closet full of clothes that I love? Check!
  • Feeling confident about my outfits every day? Check!
  • Owning the room wherever I go because I look THAT good? Check!

Do YOU want to feel that way?  Are you finally ready for that transformation?  Let’s start that style journey together.

Let's face it – your image matters!

You deserve to have a wardrobe you adore, feel confident in and allows you the freedom to express who you really are.

This is why I created The RC Style Guide, an easy, accessible, and affordable way to pull your style together.  I made it so you can:

  • Save time + money because you will finally understand your style
  • Get guidance from a personal stylist who knows what it takes for real women, like you, to feel good in their clothes
  • Have clarity and direction about who you are and what you want to portray to the world

Feeling attractive and confident in every situation comes from a combination of knowing your style preferences and learning how to dress for your body type.  And that’s what I want for YOU…to help you take pride in how you look.  To own the room.

And that all begins with signing up for The RC Style Guide.  It’s a fun and interactive monthly subscription-based membership where I teach you everything I know about transforming your look.

It’s inexpensive, personalized, fashion advice.

To get all these great tips, and get set up for style monthly, all you need to do is head over here to register.

Don’t delay – sign up today and start loving your image right away!

>>I’m in!<<

No more staring at your closet and feeling like you have nothing to wear to your next meeting, networking event or Sunday afternoon BBQ! 😉

I’ll see you on the inside!

Stylishly Yours,

Roxanne

Roxanne Carne is a recognized Personal Stylist & Personal Shopper styling women in NoVA, Washington, DC, MD, and virtually!  Visit www.roxannecarne.com to discover how she can help you define your style!

Want to know what your clothing really says about you? Learn more with Roxanne Carne | Personal Stylist!

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